In this episode of the Dating Like a Goddess Podcast, I have a meaningful chat with Jennifer, a member of our group who is engaged but feels apprehensive about moving forward with marriage. We explore the fears she has, where they come from, and how to address them to embrace a fulfilling relationship.

💕 Main Points:

1. Engagement and Fear:

   • Jennifer shares her excitement about being engaged but admits to feeling scared about the commitment of marriage.

   • We discuss how fear can often hold us back from experiencing true happiness in relationships.

2. Exploring the Origins of Fear:

   • Jennifer reflects on her past relationships, including a difficult marriage and a toxic relationship, which have contributed to her current apprehensions.

   • The fear of repeating past mistakes plays a significant role in her anxiety about marriage.

3. Communication and Vulnerability:

   • We highlight the importance of open communication with her fiancé about her fears and insecurities.

   • Jennifer learns that expressing her feelings can help strengthen their bond.

4. Conflict Resolution:

   • The conversation emphasizes the need to embrace conflict as a natural part of relationships rather than something to avoid.

   • Jennifer acknowledges that both she and her fiancé are conflict-averse, leading to fears about potential disagreements.

5. Empowerment through Self-Reflection:

   • I encourage Jennifer to engage in self-reflection and explore the root causes of her fears.

   • We discuss practical strategies for balancing her analytical thinking with her emotional desires.

6. Role Modeling for Children:

   • Jennifer expresses concern about how her decisions regarding marriage may impact her children.

   • We talk about the importance of modeling healthy relationships for her kids and showing them that it’s okay to rely on others.

7. Taking Steps Forward:

   • The episode concludes with actionable steps for Jennifer, including having heart-to-heart conversations with her fiancé and focusing on building a partnership rooted in trust and support.

💕 Highlights:

• Quotes from Jennifer: "I love the idea of marriage, but I’m just scared of what might go wrong."

• Penny's Insight: "Sometimes the biggest risk is not taking the leap toward the love you truly desire."

• Empowerment Reminder: "Your happiness is worth the risk; embrace it."

This episode serves as a supportive reminder that fear is a natural part of significant life changes, but addressing it through communication, self-reflection, and vulnerability can lead to a more fulfilling relationship.

💕 Useful links:

🩷 Join The Love School (My monthly group coaching program)

🩷 Join my free Facebook group, 👑 Manifest Your King: Learn to date like a Queen

🩷 Book a consult

🩷 Work with me

🩷 Check out my courses

🩷 Heal your attachment style

🩷 Heal your broken heart

🩷 The Feminine Art of Dating

🩷 The Feminine Art of Avoiding Toxic Relationships

🩷 The Feminine Energy Bundle