The lonely path to healing and self-growth 💕
Coach Penny LoveThe lonely path to healing and self-growth 💕One of my clients has made a very interesting point today at the Love School, and it’s like the more you heal and the more you grow, the less and less that you will have in common with your current friends, and the less you’ll be able to relate to them. So it will be impossible for you to listen to their advice, and of course, they will not follow your advice either, which will create friction and conflict between you. Something else happens as well with your friends that is even worse, and it’s that the more you heal, the more that your friends will be triggered by you, by your own healing. The more you grow the more that your own self-growth will trigger them. They will look at you, and all they will see in you are the parts of themselves that they have not healed yet but also the parts of themselves that they refuse to heal or the parts of you that they are not ready to see yet because it hurts too much and therefore, they will resent you for it. And because they are not healed enough to let you go, they will cling onto you, neg at you, and try to sabotage and put blocks on your pathway, talk about you behind your back in unflattering ways…. They will discourage you and tell you that you don’t have what it takes to make your dreams come true. How dare you have dreams! Because they do not even bother to have dreams of their own, how dare you have dreams.
