What to buy your tinder crush for Christmas

Hello beautiful 💕

With Christmas around the corner it’s time to go shopping, but, what is a single girl to do nowadays??? what should you buy for your tinder crush? And what should you get for your boyfriend??? How much to spend??? 

In order to explain this, let’s classify first what type of single girl you are:

Pre exclusivity

You have been dating him (and others too) for a while, everything is looking great, he’s booking you every Saturday by Wednesday but you’re not exclusive yet. 

Gift value: ZERO

• Nothing

• Nada

• Niente

• Zero

Yep, you heard that right. He’s not claimed you, he’s not calling you his girlfriend. It might also be too soon so do not buy him any presents, not even a Christmas card. 

Also don’t expect any gifts from him, expect no gifts or grand gestures. You’re not a couple yet. 

Don’t buy him a gift hoping he’ll commit to you. It doesn’t work that way. In fact, it has the opposite effect. 

Exclusivity. 

He’s asked you to stop dating others and to take your dating profile down, he’s asked you to be his girlfriend. He’s claiming you as his. 

Gift value: £5-£30 

Gifts Do’s 

• A coffee mug.

• A winter scarf. 

• A t-shirt.

• A book or DVD – Nothing romantic. 

• A cap of his favourite sports team.

Gifts Don'ts

• Jewellery.

• A poetry book.

• Something engraved.

• A photo frame with a picture of you. 

• A gourmet cooked Christmas dinner. 

If dating less than 6 months keep your gift closer to the £5 mark, if 6 months or longer then you can go more towards the £30 mark. 

After engaged or married

Things don’t change much after getting engaged or getting married. You should still keep your gifts low key and let him be the one that spoils you.

We must be in our feminine energy to make the best of our relationships and “to give” is a very masculine trait, so let him be the masculine. Let him shower you with gifts. Let him be the provider and watch him being happy by making you happy. 

You in turn remain in your feminine by receiving, being happy, smiling and being grateful. 

Gift value £5-£50

• His favourite sports team jersey.

• His favourite whiskey or brandy if he drinks. 

• A belt, scarf or jumper. 

• Techie gadgety  stuff (headphones, chargers…..) 

• Christmas cookies.

• A gourmet cooked Christmas dinner with all the trimmings (married ladies only)

Remember ladies, we don’t want to buy his love, all he wants for Christmas is his dream girl. So be the dream girl and start behaving like a dream girl. 

Oooooh and don’t forget to mail me and show me all your Christmas pressies!!! 

Guess what!!! HE is allowed to spoil you rotten!!!!

Love Penny 💕

Ps, what did you get your guy???