The number one rule about dating

Hello beautiful 💕

Welcome to my website and welcome to my first blog.

Let’s talk about dating, love, relationships, marriage and getting engaged. Let’s talk about men, sex, money and power.

We’ll be talking about all these topics and many more but let’s start from the beginning, let’s start with Rule 1, let’s talk about the most important thing of all.

You.

To be successful in dating, relationships, marriage and even in your career, everything has to start with you.

In order to get other people to think you’re amazing, it is important for you to think you’re amazing. If you don’t think you are, why would anybody else?

“BEING A CREATURE UNLIKE ANY OTHER is a state of mind. You don’t have to be rich, beautiful, or exceptionally smart to feel this way about yourself. And you don’t have to be born with this feeling either. It can be learned, practised, and mastered, like all the other rules in this book” Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, authors of The Rules for dating books. 

And I’m the living example of this statement, if I can learn it, practice it and master it, so can you, and I’ll teach you how.

In order to explain this I’ve split the CUAO essence into 3;

The physical

Here is a list of things you can do today to make yourself look great and feel great straight away:

• A visit to the hair salon. A nice trim might be just what the doctor ordered to get you feeling shiny and new. Keep it as long as you can. Men like it long, shiny and bouncy.

• Changing or refreshing your hair colour works too. Deepening your brunette locks or getting a balayage. Deep conditioning treatment and if you use bleach in your hair I personally recommend Olaplex.

• You can also book a makeover at the makeup counter in your local department store. Look out for special offers in Groupon.

• Book a manicure or a Pedicure, a fresh coat of varnish can lift any spirits. I dare you to try red.

• Wear red lipstick, it has been scientifically proven that wearing red lipstick can boost your confidence, plus, men really love it (I’ll do a blog in the future about red lipstick)

• Get yourself a new dress, something that shows off your figure, your best bits! Some of you will need an entirely new wardrobe, we’ll talk about this in another blog.

• Join your local gym.

• Join your local running club (extra points for this one, it will leave you feeling great, looking great and you’ll meet men!!!)

• Get yourself a nutritionist and start eating healthy or join your local slimming club.

The mental

These are just a few of the things that you can do to improve yourself mentally:

• Go for that promotion.

• If you’re not happy with your job, go for a change of career.

• A new hobby.

• A night out with the girlfriends.

• Find your local singles and go out with other singles, or even better! come and join me at my next Rules Girls meet up!!! (I’ll announce it on my website).

• Learn to cook a new dish.

• Declutter your home, your wardrobe, your life.

• Learn how to be a lady, talk like a lady, walk like a lady, sit like a lady, dine like a lady.

• Learn a new language.

The spiritual

After you have taken care of your physical self and your mental self, here is a list of things to practice your spiritual self:

• Write a love letter to yourself.

• Practice daily gratefulness, give thanks for the things that you have.

• Practice daily affirmations.

• Meditate/Pray.

• Forgiveness. Forgive yourself and also those who have wronged you in the past, don’t let them ruin a thing.

• Let go, surrender and have faith that tomorrow is another day and you can start from scratch if need be. A new page, a new you, a better you.

• Face your fears by going head-on with your fear and doing what you’re afraid to anyways because this fear is not real, it’s only in your head.

• Journaling – some people find writing their thoughts down very beneficial.

• Watch your thoughts; keep it positive.

You must be your best, look your best and behave your best at all times but remember, if you make a mistake, don’t beat yourself up for it; we all make mistakes. Simply get up, straighten up your tiara, reapply your lipstick and carry on.

At the end of the day it’s all about self-love, and self-respect, so, be kind to yourself.

Love Penny 💕