Welcome to another episode of Dating Like a  Goddess!

On today's episode, we're gonna talk about rejection because this is coming up a lot. And as I don’t know if it's because we are on Venus retrograde and now with mercury retrograde as well, things are gonna get bumpy, especially for the next couple of weeks; with 1000 planets on retrograde right now, we might be feeling a little bit more sensitive, or we might be more subject to rejection or perceived rejection. 

So we are going to try to redefine the meaning of rejection so that next time that you suffer rejection, it doesn't affect you at all. 

I know. It's difficult, and it's really hard, but it can be done. 

And the first thing for me, the first thing that really has helped overall, is to know what I want and what do I want?

You want a guy that is like this, and this and this,  but then you go on a date, and you find the guy that matches your ideal, and he's everything you wanted, but he doesn't like you. 

Remember that within that description of what you want:

You want a guy Who likes you. 

You want a guy that is crazy about you. 

In fact, that is the number one thing that has to happen because we cannot be fools and pining for men who are not interested in us. 

So the very first thing that you must demand from a guy that you are dating is that:

He likes you.

He loves your energy.

He likes you physically.

He likes you intellectually.

You are compatible.

You like some of the same things that you can enjoy doing together.

You enjoy each other's energy, and you enjoy talking to each other. Right?

and he likes you.

This is one of the most important things.

For any relationship to happen, there must be reciprocity. Okay? So, if there is no reciprocity, this is not a relationship. You're just fooling yourself. Okay?

So, if the guy is not interested in you, that means there is no reciprocity.

So he is not what you wanted. He's not the guy that you wanted.

He's not the guy for you because number 1 on your list should be a guy that is interested in you.

A guy who is crazy about you. 

Only Mr Wrong will reject you, and who cares about Mr Wrong??? 

Press play for more mindset tricks that have worked for me to avoid feeling rejected. 💕

The person I mention on this podcast is Jamie Kern Lima, the founder of It cosmetics.

PS: People who fear rejection the most are avoidant attachment-style people; you can grab my course to help you heal your attachment style here. 

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People who fear rejection the most are avoidant attachment style people; you can grab my course to help you heal your attachment style here. 

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